A Puzzle Piece That's Found Its Home

I've been all over the United States and even to Mexico and Cuba. I think though that this will always be my favorite place. Every time I see this bridge I want to be there. I have to be there. That's why every year I try so hard to make it back. I can't explain it. I just know more and more that Michigan is my home and getting to any Great Lake (in Michigan) is a yearly goal. I made it to Lakes Michigan, Huron and Superior last year and I'm hoping to do the same again this year. Time will tell! Even if I can only get to one though, I'll be happy just to see the clear, blue (and this year cold) water of a Great Lake will be a pleasure.   

There are a lot of people who leave Michigan for many reasons.  The economy is bad, it's cold, and those are very good reasons to leave.  However, if you can stick it out there are some great benefits.  Forty of Michigan's eighty-three counties touch at least one of the Great Lakes.  If you are within the state of Michigan you are always within 85 miles of one of the Great Lakes.  For me, the Great Lakes are in my blood.  It's been said that if you grow up in the state you don't realize how much you miss them until you leave.  Maybe a better way to describe it would be that (for some) you don't realize how big a part of your life they are until they aren't accessible anymore.  When I was getting ready to move to Colorado a guy told me there was no water there and I freaked. My knee jerk reaction was to rethink the whole thing.  Sometimes though, sacrifices have to be made.  Lord willing, someday I'll be back.  

Last year I was in Michigan for a week and Dad and I headed up to the Straits for a couple days.  I hadn't been to Mackinaw City in six years and Mackinaw Island almost ten.  I was going through withdraw.  Not really.  But I was really excited to be going.  

There were some firsts on this trip...also some lasts.  It was the first time we didn't take bikes to the island.  That won't happen again.  Oh, and if any of you are considering staying there keep in mind that staying in St. Ignace may be cheaper but you have to pay every time you cross the bridge so unless you are headed north it might be advantageous to stay on the south side as there is pretty much nothing except the casino and the campground we stayed at in St. Ignace.    Okay.  Enough of that rabbit trail.  

One of the nights we headed back into Mackinaw City we were going to meet up with a family friend I hadn't seen in years.  Bonnietta Benn.  She plays the flute (quite well I might add), and she was playing at a concert in the park. We caught up with her just as she started practicing so we had to wait for her to finish so we waited in the park at a picnic table just sitting, watching, and relaxing.  The bridge was well within view as was the island.  It was a nice evening but something felt oddly different. I looked around and an image popped into my head. A puzzle piece.  I was a puzzle piece.  Suddenly it made sense.   Why, as a troll* (someone who lives in the Lower Peninsula of Michigan under the Mackinaw Bridge), do I fit in more with the Yoopers** (someone born in the UP) then with the trolls?  (I'm actually more of a Yooper trapped in a troll's body.)   Just as the Mackinaw City and the Straits seem to complete my "puzzle" the Mackinaw Bridge represents the link to the family I have in the Upper Peninsula and the love for Lake Superior I've developed over the last thirty years.  It comes back full circle.  I know that there are some who will say it's not possible but I really believe that Michigan is as much a part of me as I am of it.  I bleed blue.  Wolverine blue yes but so much more Lake Superior blue.   That explains why people here in Ohio look at me funny when I tell them I love snow.  Although, truth be told that happens pretty much everywhere.  Now, with all that said, the question bears asking, "Why are you still in the Buckeye State?"  Well, for now, this is where God wants me and I'll stay here until He indicates otherwise.  I've got a good job, good church and I'm close to family here as well and that's reason enough for me to stay.  So until such time as I can get to the Keweenaw and breathe "the cleanest air on earth" (not until 2015) I'll see fit to watch from afar but at the same time enjoy the Straits and life at the other end of the state.  Can't wait to visit you Mom (you too Dad!)  :-) 

Facts on Michigan were taken from the below website
http://www.michigan.gov/mdot/0,4616,7-151-9622_11033_11151-67959--,00.html 

 

Moving On.

I was thinking last night about change of scenery.  Not landscape (although that does play a role given that if
you move the geography may change.)  but relationships.  I've moved several times over the last few years...many times actually, but, aside from my initial move out of my parents' house, only the last couple have taken me across country. 

The fact that we are even able to move across country is profound.  Two hundred years ago that thought was unheard of.    It was more exploration but it was into the unknown and you couldn't just transfer to another job in another state and expect to stay in contact with those in your community.  If you  left that was it.  I don't know how long it takes to ride twenty miles on a horse but I know it's a lot longer then it is to drive it in a car.

Today, in the Age of Technology where we are spoiled with iPhones, Facebook, and the like it is very easy to stay in touch over long distances.  Plus of course a flight from New York to Los Angeles can be done in six hours.  Our world is much smaller then it was even one hunderd years ago.

But is it really that easy to stay in touch?  Yes.  Staying "in contact" is easy.  You can visit, call, and see posts, and "follow", but anyone can do that.  That's not a real relationship.  A cry on your shoulder relationship.  We certainly don't need to have one of those or be one of those all the time but it is deeper then being Facebook friends.  I've found that while I still love and appreciate those that have been (and some still are) in my life it is still hard to maintain a good relationship even with those who I do still connect with on a regular basis just because of the distance.  We can't sit across the table from one another.  As I type that I think of another point though.  Skyping.  Interacting via web cam.  This does make it face to face and you are "across the table" from on another even though one could be in Afghanistan and the other in Michigan.  That is a good way to keep in touch.  Thank God for technology!  It is great to be able to stay in contact with those I've established friendships and family bonds with over the years.  Progress we've made in technology enables me to foster my relationships and build those friendships/family bonds even if I can only see them every couple years.